The higher my expectations of other people are, the lower is my serenity. Wilson, one of the founders of alcoholics anonymous aa. I can watch my serenity level rise when i discard my expectations. There is every evidence that women regain their health as readily as. As of december 2009, 30,664,881 copies of the big book have been sold or otherwise distributed source aa gso ny. The big book of alcoholics anonymous kindle edition by wilson, bill, smith, dr. All sections of this country and many of its occupations are represented. The big book doesnt come with an index, so here is one in the form of a bookmark. Bobs nightmare and the personal experiences of some alcoholics are detailed as well as the series of. So far, try as they might, the first 164 pages havent been changed. Read the big book and twelve steps and twelve traditions. When i opened it to page 112 and read those three words, i said to myself, well, better stop using it for a coaster.
When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life. The whytehouse is, i hope, a way to find that special phrase or saying etc. Ask him in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. Message board page 449 3d big book of alcoholics anonymous. This thread is a listing of some of the character defects and where they are referred to in the big book as well as thoughts on each.
Our online big book is used by thousands of people all over the world, and incurs substantial bandwidth expense. Peace in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12. To read a pdf version of the fourth edition of alcoholics anonymous click here. And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. Big book our big aa book 248 12 steps had a definite formula 248 he inspired god, as we understand him 249 philadelphia brand new group 249 rosa only 12 step call on woman, married her 250 san diego, ca now live in the west. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some. Do it every day for two weeks, and you will find you have come to mean it and to want it for them, and you will realize that where you used to feel bitterness and resentment and hatred, you now feel compassionate understanding and love. Big book acceptance is the answer to all of my problems today. Download it once and read it on your kindle device, pc, phones or tablets.
You think he ought to know the subject better, as everyone should have a clear understanding of the risk he takes if he drinks too much. Mar 18, 2012 from page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous and acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. Also, someone told me once the answers to all my problems are answered in the first three words on page 112 in the big book. We, of alcoholics anonymous, are more than one hundred men and women who have recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body. Twelve steps to live without resentment hazelden betty ford.
Copyright alcoholics anonymous world services, inc. The big book of alcoholics anonymous the world famous eye. Our activities in behalf of women who drink are on the increase. A personal story on page 407 called acceptance was the answer is also wellknown among aa membership. It is my hope that you will find this site useful to you and our friends of bill w. Big book personal stories part iii alcoholics anonymous. Perhaps they created the impression that he is to be wrapped in cotton wool and placed on a pedestal. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that. A vision for you, big book page 164 alcoholics anonymous. The news hawk jim s, akron helped akron members write stories for 1st ed big book. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us.
I have provided a link in a couple of places on this page for your convenience, so you can get to the search page. The 164 and more book, ebook, and web site are all concordances which display passages from the big book alcoholics anonymous, the twelve steps and twelve traditions, and the a. The big book the main 164 pages, prayers, personal stories, and more. Ii spiritual experience the terms spiritual experience and spiritual awakening are used many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality change suf. Aug 24, 2014 the page 552 prayer to end resentments posted by paulcoholic on 24 august 2014, 6. Big book personal stories part iii they lost nearly all. But what we have said applies quite as much to women. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situationsome fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. But then my rights try to move in, and they, too, can force my serenity level down. Since the first edition appeared, in 1939, it has helped millions of men and women recover from alcoholism. Thats the way my drinking began, as a way to make the pain go away.
The page 552 prayer to end resentments sober catholic. The role of acceptance in coping with alcohol addiction. The 12 promises of aa begin on page 83 of the fourth edition of the big book. The big book of alcoholics anonymous includes the story of a woman whose drinking landed her in jail twice and nearly ruined her third marriage. I was given yet another gift from a dear friend in my aa group. Before the night was over, i had started a fight with a number of collegeaged drunken fellows and returned. You dont need a twosided printer to print on both sides. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and highlighting while reading the big book of alcoholics anonymous.
There is a no apparent writing in the book and there are no missing pages, the cover has general soiling, the spine ends are rolled, the gilt lettering on the front cover is dull and about 95% present, the gilt lettering on the spine is rubbed and about 20% visible, the text pages are agetoned with foxedstained stained text block page edges and reinforced front hinge. If you have a drinking problem, we hope that you may pause in reading. Personal stories on pages 407, 476, 494, 531, and 553 are ed by. The acceptance prayer esselman counseling services. Its from the 4th edition of alcoholics anonymous or the big book as it is widely known. It was my intention, literally, to drink myself to death, she said. The story of how many thousands of men and women have recovered from alcoholism generally known as the big book because of the thickness of the paper used in the first edition is a 1939 basic text, describing how to recover from alcoholism, primarily written by william g. Home read the big book and twelve steps and twelve traditions alcoholics anonymous alcoholics anonymous this is the fourth edition of the big book, the basic text for alcoholics anonymous. The answers will come, if your own house is in order. The free version features the full text of the big book, prayers, personal stories, podcasts, meeting finder, and more. B1 alcoholics anonymous fourth edition 2001 of the big book, basic text of a. Print a copy of the first side print page 1 only, then reinsert it into the paper tray of your printer and print page 2.
The fourth edition includes twentyfour new stories that provide contemporary sharing for newcomers seeking recovery from alcoholism in a. Acceptance was the answer the physician wasnt hooked, he thoughthe just prescribed drugs medically indicated for his many ailments. My serenity is inversely proportional to my expectations. A vision for you, big book page 164 our book is meant to be suggestive only. How it works from pages 5860 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Home read the big book and twelve steps and twelve traditions alcoholics anonymous alcoholics anonymous this is the fourth edition of the. We expect that this contribution to the recovering community worldwide will continue to grow, as our online big book is a great study tool. This is the third edition of the book alcoholics anonymous. To show other alcoholics precisely how we have recovered is the main purpose of this book. Never in my wildest moments had it occurred to me that i might like to be an. Posted on march 2, 2014 in the book, alcoholics anonymous, page 449, there is a prayer in the middle of the page, first new paragraph. The big book of alcoholics anonymous kindle edition by. Alcoholics anonymous 1st edition 1st printing 1939 dj aa big. Alcoholics anonymous also known as the big book in recovery circles sets forth cornerstone concepts of recovery from alcoholism and tells the stories of men and women who have overcome the disease.
Show him you have confidence in his power to stop or moderate. And acceptance to is the answer to all my problems today. Just as recent as a day or two ago, someone on another post here. From page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous. New stories have been added to the personal histories. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.
Jan, 2020 the role of acceptance in recovery from alcohol addiction by. For them, we hope these pages will prove so convincing that no further authentication will be necessary. Acceptance in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12. It is the basic text of the fellowship of alcoholics anonymous, and has helped large numbers of alcoholic men and women, young and old, recover. Whether youre new to aa, or youre a seasoned veteran, this is the easiest and most useful app to aid in your recovery. Big book personal stories part iii they lost nearly. Here are several quotes from alcoholics anonymous as well as. Tell him you have been worried, though perhaps needlessly.